We Are Back…With Food

keep-calm-we-are-back-177So we at Flying Mom Pants took a little break…ok, a year long plus break…many things have happened over the last year or so…new businesses…new schools…tweens have become teens…you know, life.  Anyway, we are back and hopefully, we will be bringing you the Internet-verse our on-going middle-life mom sagas on a regular basis…

While we are getting our writing gears engaged, we thought that we would share a recipe. I am constantly searching the web for recipes as well as saving cooking videos to my Pinterest boards because always looking for something new to create that my family (some of them can be pretty picky) will actually eat.  Like home improvement shows, it sometimes looks so much easier in the video than it is in real life but I have listed below four of my go-to sites where most of the videos pretty easy to follow:

Cooking Light


12 Tomatoes


Also check out Flying Mom’s Pants new Pinterest boards, https://www.pinterest.com/flyingmompants/, for recipes that we have pinned there. However, today’s recipe, is not from one of those sites. It might actually be found on one of them, but I am sure I got my recipe from a friend of mine.  However, for ease of reference, I am giving the link to Trisha Yearwood’s recipe for Crunch (we used to call it Crack because it was so addictive but when my son told his teacher that his mom makes great Crack…we had to change the name….)




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When pigs fly (favorite idioms, old saying and the like)

purple-flying-pigThis is one of my favorite idioms (old sayings) and I have used it often. In fact, my vocabulary is littered with idioms. Most of which I learned as a child. Where I’m from (the deep south), idioms are a way of life and spoken often, especially in my family. Now I have passed the tradition down to my kids. Of course, most of the time they think I am crazy when I use them or they just don’t understand the meaning. But once explained, they get it, sort of.  Of course my son (formerly known as Mr. Minecraft, and now is referred to as Mr. “really mom, really?!”), says I just need to be direct instead of saying these “crazy sounding” statements. But where is the fun in that?

At some point almost everyone uses them in conversation. Some of my favorites (and ones that I heard often) are hold your horses (be patient), rise and shine (time to get up and get ready), and face the music (confront something unpleasant). One of the best one, of course, is when pigs fly (something that is not going to ever happen). It’s been a great response to these most recent questions, “Will you do all of my homework?” or “Can you buy a brand new gaming system? I’m tired of the one I have.”

pink-flying-pigSo what exactly idioms are and where do they come from? They are words, phrases, or expressions whose meaning cannot be taken literally, only figuratively. It is also a short way to express a complicated idea. According to the english-online.org.uk site, the word idiom is from the Latin and Greek languages and means “one of a kind or to make one’s own.” Most idioms are decidedly English or American, at least all of the ones I know of. But they are not specifically confined to the good ol’ USA. Every language has their own idioms or expressions.

In fact, the origin of this blog comes from an idiom. When we were first talking about starting this blog, we knew that between the two of us we had quite a bit of ground to cover. The sticking point was the name, at least at first. After batting around a few ideas, we hit upon this one. I have always wanted to do something with flying by the seat of my pants because I think it fits me to a tee. I am always barely getting things done, especially with the kids around. So taking that favorite idiom and adding a slight spin on it, Flying by the Seat of our Well-Worn Mom Pants was born!

purple-flying-pig2Let’s face it, without idioms our conversations would be pretty dull. They are colorful, interesting, and humorous. Idioms are a great way to get someone’s attention. We would love to hear from you about your favorite idioms either here or on our Facebook page. We’ll  be posting more on our Facebook page, too. So, don’t be a Doubting Thomas (a skeptic) and give it a shot (give it a try)!

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Social Media, the bane of my existence…

imagesVICU9OB6Originally, I was going to write this post about how I now need to stop and think about posting pictures of my kids on Facebook.  Now that Frick and Frack are getting older, posting pictures on them in their Christmas pajamas seemed like an invasion of their privacy.  Something that could end up being embarrassing to them.  It was different when they were little.  What tween wants their photos in their cute Christmas pjs plastered all over the internet? I know that I wouldn’t have wanted my parents to do something like that when I was a tween (which is something that we were not called when I was 11.) Boy, I am SO glad that Facebook and other social media sites did not exist when I was growing up.  What also got me to thinking about this subject was the news that my favorite podcast, Maniac Mommies, was ending.  It seems part of their decision to end the podcast was based on the fact that their kids are getting older and stories about tween/teenage angst are different than stories about toddlers/kids doing toddler/kid things.  In fact, they shared this blog http://www.homesanctuary.com/rachelanne/2014/02/dear-lonely-mom-of-older-kids.html which hit home (and was very comforting too.)  I will still blog about Frick and Frack but will definitely be much more cautious in what I share about their lives.

Which got me thinking about the whole social media thing. I love Facebook because I can keep up with what my extended family is doing. Most of my family lives in another state.  I love seeing what the assorted family members are up to and watching the younger ones growing up. And my family gets to see what Frick and Frack are doing. But as stated above, I am being much more judicious about that.  I also have liked numerous pages of things that interest me. And let’s face it, who doesn’t love a good, funny cat video?  I like Pinterest because there are lots of good ideas to be found there (along with just some beautiful photographs of practically everything as well as quotes to inspire you.)  I like Twitter to get instant reactions to whatever is happening at that moment.  However, going down the social media rabbit hole is a huge time suck for me.  As the book, Wine Makes Mommy Clever by Andy Riley, a birthday present from the boys, says “Facebook makes Mommy’s morning magically vanish.” It wasn’t just my Saturday mornings, though. I found myself checking my iPhone constantly, during the times that I take the bus, on my lunch break, after dinner or Sunday afternoon.  So I’ve added the “Moment” app for my iPhone. It keeps track of how much time I spend on my iPhone. It is amazing how quickly I can get to 90 minutes, just “glancing” at my phone now and again. So I am trying to read more and have recently begun Anna Karenina, a novel that I, the English major, never got to in college.  I find just looking out the window on the bus ride is actually relaxing.  Zoning out can be a good thing.  In fact, the NPR story where I heard about the “Moment” app, was about a challenge by New Tech City‘s called Bored and Brilliant project. It is a week of challenges “to help you detach from your phone and spend more time thinking creatively.”  The challenge’s tagline is “The Lost Art of Zoning Out.”

So, social media, the bane of my existence…I really like hanging out with you. But, I think it’s time we spent a little more time apart (at least on an hourly basis). We will see how this self-imposed time restriction will work out.

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Welcome 2015!

Here we are two weeks into a brand new year and I can hardly believe it. I was just getting used to 2014 and now its over. It has completely sped by me before I was ready for it to leave. Now I have no choice but to say, “Welcome 2015!”

On New Year’s Eve, we did just like everyone else…rang out the old and rang in the new. Although, we certainly didn’t do it like we did pre-kids! I am lucky if I am awake at midnight. I do remember how fun it is to be out at a party on New Year’s Eve. And at midnight to watch the ball drop, maybe enjoy some fireworks, and toast in the new year with your beverage of choice. I wonder if anyone even sings Auld Lang Syne anymore. We never did.

Back in the day when I did enjoy New Year’s Eve properly, it was the morning after that was always so hard. But once fully functional, I definitely celebrated New Year’s Day. It has become one of my favorite holidays. It reminds me of Thanksgiving. There is always a gathering with a good meal, family and friends. Growing up in the South, we really did it right and followed tradition with our menu.  Certain foods, when eaten on New Year’s Day, are supposed to bring you prosperity for the coming year. And why not try to get yourself a little good fortune at the start of a brand new year.

The Southern New Year’s Day cuisine includes pork, cooked greens (like cabbage or collards), and black-eyed peas. The greens represent folded money, the peas are for good luck and money (coins), and the pork is for wealth and prosperity. I can’t remember a New Year’s Day without these foods. I have always managed to keep up the tradition no matter what happened the night before. And we still do to this day. I do feel like I have been very lucky in my life so maybe the black-eyed peas are working. I’m still waiting to see if the greens and pork will send some of that hard, cold cash my way.

The other traditional part of the New Year is to make resolutions. I’ve always make at least one resolution but it hasn’t been easy. In the past, I have made them so complicated and really hard to keep. I am not sure why I felt the need to make it difficult. I guess I thought that these resolutions had to be painful and really challenging or it wouldn’t count. Of course I rarely kept them.

I think by making it so trying that you miss the whole point of making resolutions. For me, resolutions should be more attainable and why not make them fun? The whole point is to make yourself accomplish some goals. I’m not against putting in some challenges for the new year. But I need to be sure to make some of these resolutions feasible. Once reached, you feel like you have really accomplished something and can tackle the harder ones.

In the past few years, my husband and I decided to change it up and do a family resolution. The one we started last year was a great success and lots of fun. In fact, we are going to do it again this year. Our resolution was to go on a monthly family mini-adventure. It can be something big like a trip or something around town. The only stipulations were that we had to do it together and it had to be something that at least one of us had not done before. Some of the fun things we did last year were sand dune exploring, snow tubing, concerts, plays, nature hiking, beach camping and whale watching. The best part of it all was that we did it together. We are all looking forward to it again this year. In fact, we need to figure out what we are going to do for this month before it is over!

As for my own personal resolutions, I have made one and might make a few more. But this time they won’t quite so difficult as the ones in the past. I may even take a cue from our family one and make some time to have an adventure on my own.

What New Year’s Resolutions did you make if any? We would love to hear all about them.


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Being thankful…


It’s that time of year…Thanksgiving. Not only is the holiday about food (yes, I’ve become obsessed with googling the perfect way to roast a turkey. Still a turkey novice so any help I can get is a good thing…) but it is a time to reflect and be thankful. Actually, being thankful or being grateful on a daily basis is something that I am working on.   So here is my list of what I am thankful for…

  1. My pets. They give me pleasure, companionship and warmth (especially on cold nights when the Scientist cat would like to sleep on my head but will settle for my pillow.) Last year, when the Movie Star dog died, it left a dog shaped hole in my heart. The Wonder dog, who has recently joined the family, has begun to fill the void. I love our early morning walks. I may not be disciplined enough to meditate on a regular basis, but this quiet time seems almost meditative, especially since the Wonder dog is a sniffer. We cannot go a few feet without stopping, sniffing, peeing, etc.
  2. My co-workers. I’ve been at my new job for a little over three months now. It is so pleasant to work with such a group of professional, thoughtful and smart people. I actually don’t dread Mondays (although I do believe we should have three-day weekends every week.) It doesn’t hurt that my boss likes to have wine and cheese on a regular basis (after work, of course.)
  3. My friends. I have such wonderful friends. People who support me, laugh with me and sometimes even cry with me. And believe me, there’s no better stress buster in the world than catch-up lunch during a hectic week or a night out with the girls.
  4. My family – near and far. Some members of my family are nearby but a lot of them are far away. I did get to see most of them this past year at my mom’s 80th birthday party. Family is family. You have a shared history and bonds that are always there no matter how far they have to stretch. Plus, Facebook helps keep me up with what’s going on with the various family members.
  5. My boys. When I look at Frick and Frack at times, I can see the babies they once were but I can almost see the men they will become. Time flies so quickly. The best time in the world is hanging out with my boys. Especially since I can still tickle them without too much protest.
  6. My husband. The Husband has taken on the twin herculean tasks of running his own business as well as taking care of the boys. He oversees homework, cooks dinner, and does laundry. What more can a girl ask for? He’s my best friend and always makes me laugh…

Here’s hoping that everyone has a truly happy Thanksgiving. Now, I need to get back to my research regarding brining the turkey! Gobble Gobble.




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It’s that creepy time of year!

lighted skull2Tis’ the season to celebrate and I don’t mean Christmas. I’m talking about Halloween. It’s the season to put up the spooky decorations, dress up and take to the streets to gather some loot (aka candy), listen to scary stories and watch creepy movies, and participate in assorted haunted activities. I freely admit it…I just love this time of year. Halloween has become one of my favorite holidays.

I’ve always enjoyed it even as a kid but didn’t really get into the Halloween spirit until I was an adult with children.  The kids just have made it more fun. Having children gives you permission to do things you wouldn’t normally do, and be a kid again.

I do realize there are a lot of people who don’t like Halloween, and that’s fine. Everyone is entitled to their own thoughts and opinions about All Hallows’ Eve. But me, I just happened to love it. And this is not about worshiping pagan rituals, sacrifices, or raising the dead. I celebrate it for other reasons. Some of them are:

lighted pumpkin facesCommunity
This is probably the main reason I love this ghostly holiday. It is truly the only community-based holiday there is. In our case, this includes my kids’ school’s Halloween festival, our spooky back yard treasure hunt, parties for both kids and adults, and trick-or-treating (which is the best part). Our neighborhood does it right on Halloween. It is always buzzing with excitement. Almost all of the houses on my street are lighted and decorated. The streets and sidewalks are filled with kids and families. It is festive, fun and a great way to socialize with friends and neighbors.

It’s all-inclusive
That’s right. This holiday is for both adults and children. Everyone gets to have fun and can dress-up.

painted jarsIt’s creative
This is the really the most fun part for me. I love being able to decorate, do crafts and activities, and create costumes. Dressing up is the best. This is the one time of year you can be whatever or whoever you want to be and nobody judges you (unless it’s a contest). My oldest really loves this part. He creates his costume from whatever he finds in the closet or combines costumes from years past to create something new. Three years ago he wore a Darth Vader mask with his Anakin Skywalker costume. He called himself Jed Vader, the brother/Jedi-wannabe no one ever talks about (maybe the family is embarrassed by him since he never could cut it.).

Best of all…candy!
I’m no fool. This is totally the best part of all. I have an incredible sweet tooth (mostly for chocolate) so any opportunity that I can load up on candy & chocolate guilt-free, I am all for. And, ofcourse, all of it is for the children, not me. Well, okay maybe a few for me.

I was curious to see what other people out there thought of Halloween. So I did a littledid a little looking around on the web. I am glad I did. I found quite a few like-minded folks out there. There were alot of good blog posts out there to choose from. It was hard to narrow it down but I found a really good one that completely sums up my feelings and thoughts on this spooky time of year. It’s a great story and I agree with this mom blogger, I wouldn’t have my family miss out on any of the fun of Halloween either. Here link is attached be sure to check it out.  http://bethwoolsey.com/2014/10/on-robin-hood-his-merry-men-and-why-we-celebrate-halloween-even-as-christians/ We also have a link to another good halloween site on our Facebook page. Check it out when you can.

I hope you have a fun, safe, and happy Halloween!

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Finding my third gear

Life is a Beautifu RideMany changes have occurred in the past weeks.  School has started.  Despite all my worrying, Frick is adapting well to middle school.  Frack is back in the mode of school, friends and soccer.  The husband and I both have new jobs.  The husband now works from home. So another big change is that we no longer have a babysitter for the boys.  And I’ve starting riding my bike to work again.  Not every day yet but I am slowly working my way to five days a week.  I did ride my bike to work at my old job every so often but with having to be home by a certain time to relieve the babysitter, I felt it was easier to take the bus.  Also, there wasn’t an accessible gym and/or shower room to change in.  And the bike parking was a hassle. Or at least, that’s what I told myself. It’s so easy to talk your way out of exercising.  And as a working mom, exercise is something that is never a priority although it should be, like getting a good night’s sleep (fodder for another blog.)

Now that I am riding again, I remember why I love it and am reminded of how much I missed it.  Biking has always meant freedom to me. When I was a girl, my bike was the horse that I couldn’t have. When I was a teenager, my bike was my transportation to friends’ houses and my first places of employment. In fact, I bought a yellow Schwinn ten speed with my first check from my first full time summer job. When we lived near the beach, my husband and I got bikes and took long bike rides along the coast (pre-kids, of course.)  We even house hunted on our bikes and were lucky enough to find one where we could commute to work on our bikes, a rarity at the time in So Cal.  Now we are lucky enough to live a bike friendly community.

Every day that I ride, I have a chance to have some quiet time to myself before and after work.  Some time to think. Some days I have so much on my mind that the ride goes very quickly.  However, there are days when I just enjoy the ride.  Of course, I am still becoming accustomed to riding.  Slowly, it is becoming easier.  My knees hurt, some days more than others (oh the joy of being over 50).  But last week, I found my high gear (which I always thought was my low gear because it’s harder to pedal – thank you Google.).  I’d been using the middle to low gears up until then.  Now I am even pedaling downhill (not just coasting, although I still coast on occasion.)

My goal is to work up to five days a week by the end of the month.  And I am hoping to ride through the winter (fingers crossed.) Now that I am getting the exercise that I sorely need, I really don’t want to give it up.

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